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Setting Your Dating or Connection Intentions

Be clear about what you're looking for — whether it's friendship, networking, or something more meaningful. Updating your intentions lets others know your purpose on Cufy, leading to more genuine interactions. You can modify your preferences anytime based on what feels right for you.

Why setting intentions matters

  • Attract the right people: Match with those who share your relationship goals
  • Save time: Avoid mismatched expectations from the start
  • Build trust: Transparency creates honest and meaningful connections
  • Better matches: Our algorithm prioritizes people with similar intentions

Available intention options

Long-term Relationship

Looking for something serious and committed with potential for the future

Casual Dating

Exploring connections without immediate commitment, keeping it fun and light

Friendship & Networking

Building platonic relationships, expanding your social circle, or professional networking

Still Figuring It Out

Open to possibilities, exploring what feels right without specific expectations

How to update your intentions

  1. 1

    Go to Settings

    Tap your profile icon and select the settings gear

  2. 2

    Find "Dating Intentions"

    Scroll to the preferences section

  3. 3

    Select your intention

    Choose the option that best describes what you're looking for

  4. 4

    Save changes

    Your intention will be visible on your profile and inform your matches

Be honest with yourself

  • Choose what feels right: Don't pick an intention based on what you think others want to hear
  • It's okay to change: Your goals may evolve — update your intentions whenever they do
  • Be specific in conversations: Use your bio and chats to add nuance to your intentions
  • Respect others' intentions: Not everyone will want the same thing, and that's okay

What happens when you set intentions

  • Your intention appears on your profile for matches to see
  • The algorithm prioritizes profiles with compatible intentions
  • You can filter to see only people with specific relationship goals
  • Conversations start with clearer expectations and better alignment

Remember: There's no right or wrong intention — just what's honest for you right now. Being upfront about your goals leads to more authentic connections and saves everyone time. You can always update your intentions as your feelings and priorities evolve.