Asking others to verify
Learn how to request verification from potential matches to build trust before meeting.
Why ask someone to verify?
Confirm authenticity
Ensure the person matches their photos
Catfish prevention
Protect yourself from fake profiles and scams
Build trust
Establish mutual confidence before meeting
Peace of mind
Feel safer about your potential match
How to request verification
Open the chat
Go to your conversation with the person you want to request verification from
Tap their profile
View their full profile by tapping their name or photo
Look for verification status
Check if they already have a blue verification badge
Send a polite request
If unverified, ask them kindly: "Would you be comfortable verifying your profile? It would help me feel more confident."
Offer to verify yourself
Build mutual trust by offering to verify your profile first
Best practices for requesting verification
Be polite and respectful - Frame it as a safety preference, not an accusation
Explain your reasoning - "I have had bad experiences before, so I prefer verified matches"
Lead by example - Get verified yourself first to show you value transparency
Timing matters - Ask after a few conversations, not immediately
Respect their decision - If they decline, decide if you are comfortable continuing
What if someone refuses to verify?
Not everyone will be comfortable with verification immediately. Here is how to handle it:
Ask why: They may have privacy concerns or be unfamiliar with the feature
Suggest a video call: A FaceTime or WhatsApp video call can serve the same purpose
Look for red flags: If they are defensive or evasive, proceed with caution
Trust your instincts: If something feels off, it is okay to unmatch
Example verification requests
"Hey! I really enjoy our conversations. Would you be open to verifying your profile? It would make me feel more comfortable as we get to know each other. I can verify mine too!"
"I have a personal rule to only meet people who have verified their profiles. Would you mind going through photo verification? It only takes 2 minutes!"
"I noticed you are not verified yet. No pressure, but it would help build trust between us if we both verified our profiles. What do you think?"
Red flags to watch for
Remember: Asking someone to verify is a reasonable safety request. Anyone who respects your boundaries will understand your concerns.
Safety first: If someone refuses verification and you feel uncomfortable, it is okay to end the conversation and report the profile if you suspect fraudulent activity.