Managing your conversations

Once you've matched with someone, you can start a conversation and get to know each other better. Your conversations live in the chat section of your dashboard, where you can manage all your active matches.

How to start a conversation

  1. Go to your dashboard and open the Conversations tab
  2. Select a match you'd like to chat with
  3. Type your message in the text box at the bottom
  4. Click send to start the conversation
  5. Wait for your match to respond and keep the conversation going!

Pro tip: Make your first message personal and engaging. Reference something from their profile to show genuine interest!

Conversation features

Cufy's chat system includes several features to enhance your messaging experience:

  • Real-time messaging: See when your match is typing and receive instant notifications
  • Photo sharing: Share images to make conversations more engaging
  • Conversation history: Your full chat history is saved until you unmatch
  • Instagram sharing: For permanent matches, you can share Instagram handles to connect outside the app

Conversation etiquette

  • Be respectful and kind in all messages
  • Respond within 48 hours to keep the conversation alive
  • Ask open-ended questions to keep the dialogue flowing
  • Avoid sending multiple messages in a row if they haven't responded
  • Report any inappropriate behavior immediately

Remember: Conversations are part of the temporary match phase. If both parties accept within 48 hours, the match becomes permanent and you can continue chatting indefinitely!